Wednesday, January 31, 2018

A 'Prompt' Response; Books & Authors

What are some of your favorite books, and who are some of your favorite authors?

To be honest with all of you, when I came across this prompt- I knew it would be the first thing I chose to write about in this whole "journey of self-discovery" that I'm attempting to go on throughout 2018. I also altered it slightly, because I can't choose my favorite 'author.' I read too much to just have one. Since my tastes have changed throughout the years, this post will be segmented by what level of school I was in/how old I was. Of course, all of these books are recommended.

It's taken me several attempts to make it all the way through writing this, because I keep remembering amazing books, authors, experiences, classes, and anecdotes that I need to go back and tell all of you. 

I hope you enjoy reading this as much as I enjoyed writing it.
I also hope that you all enjoy my new series answering these random prompts, which I have affectionately called, "A 'Prompt' Response."

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“We live and breathe words. .... It was books that made me feel that perhaps I was not completely alone. They could be honest with me, and I with them."

-Cassandra Clare, Clockwork Prince

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Elementary School:

If you know me, like really know me, personally, or if we've ever attended school together or been friends in any way, you'll know two things about me when it comes to reading. One, I used to be a serial-dog-earer when it came to my books, and two, that I almost always carried some type of reading material around with me from the time I was about seven. 

The first 'series' I remember reading, would have to be anything Little House on the Prairie. The first time I read through the books, I read them out of order. The next time, I read them in order. Now? I just read them by what I'm in the mood for. Laura Ingalls Wilder was a huge part of my development as a young reader. It was traditional content, but it made me start to think about historical periods of time, and everything that the past held in the form of books. 

After that, I started reading anything Percy Jackson. I was obsessed with Rick Riordan and his tales of adolescent half-blood children and teenagers literally solving all of the worlds problems. I wanted nothing more than to attend Camp Half-Blood, wear the signature orange shirt, and earn my beads from summer to summer. Alas, the only time I could ever attend the camp was through Rick's marvelous storytelling- which, to be frank, ended up being perfectly fine with me. 

Like any young female, I was obsessed with Judy Blume. Not only did I frequent the tale of Margaret, a child growing into a young woman on the hunt for a bigger purpose in life, but I reveled in the Fudge books. Every crazy family story was either something I'd experienced, or enough like my own life that I easily related. Her books were also the precursor to me falling head-over-heels in love with New York City.

Come to think of it, almost every book or series that I read at that age was set somewhere in New York. I don't think I've ever realized that before. Huh. You really learn a lot about yourself when you're trying to remember everything you ever looked up to as a young reader.

In the fifth grade, I also started reading works by this magnificent author named Beverly Lewis. She wrote Amish romances, and my mom and grandmother had been reading a series called "Annie's People." A few years later, about seven, this wonderful woman held a book signing in my town. Mom signed me out of school early, and we were among the first in line to meet Mrs. Lewis. She has the kindest heart, and we even told her about how my grandmother loved her books. She signed three or four of ours, but she also asked me to please send her anything I wrote in the future, because she wanted to know of my success when I get there. I might send her a link to this blog, but her books honestly helped shape me as a human being, and are a big part of the reason I try to find kindness in everyone.

My mom and I at the Beverly Lewis book signing in 2015.


Thank you so much, Mrs. Lewis, for continuing to write your whole life. Thank you for inspiring someone like me to keep writing, even when the words don't come so easy.

Middle School:

To be really honest with you, I don't remember reading very much in the early part of sixth grade. I had a lot of friends, and had departmentalized classes. However, I apparently was good at something, because I was in a spelling bee.

Towards the end of sixth grade is when we initially moved to North Carolina. The school I went to wasn't my favorite place in the world; I called home sick from the office at least twenty times, no exaggeration. My favorite place to escape? The school library- between the pages of books. One time I asked to go to the restroom, and then spent the following twenty minutes in the library checking out books.

My favorite series was this never heard of series called Camp Confidential, and it was about a bunch of girls going to a summer camp in middle school. This launched me face first into teenage chick-lit. The author of that series is Melissa J. Morgan, and I really admired her work for that somewhat dark period of time in my life.

Other than reading novels sporadically after that, I didn't have a specific interest in authors of books. I was more into the content. However, seventh grade was the year I discovered Stephenie Meyer, and I joined my first "fandom."

(For those of you unaware of what a "fandom" is, it's usually a group of people who are super-fans of the same thing. The topics of fandoms range from YouTube personalities, to musicians, to television shows, and of course, even authors.)

I started reading Twilight, read the entire series in a 72 hour span of time, and then found all of the movies and watched them. At this point in middle school, we were still doing A.R. ("accelerated reader;" read a book, take a test, get points based on the challenge level of the book) and so I used the Twilight books to get all of my points for both semesters.

Another author I really liked throughout this period of my life was Phyllis Reynolds Naylor. She wrote books that followed tweens, teenagers, and young adults throughout different events and experiences in life. (I also enjoyed that one of her main characters had a boyfriend named Patrick, because that was the name of my boyfriend at the time... and well, now. It was cute then, too.)

We also read the Giver, by Lois Lowry, in class that year. It was my entrance into the weird and wacky world of societies that governments thought of as utopian, but were commonly referred to as dystopian. When I first wrote that definition down for class that year, I had no idea what it would start to mean for me as a reader, and as a writer. (I also feel the need to add that I never knew that the Giver was a SERIES- and didn't read any of the other books until I graduated high school. Way to go, me!)

Come to think of it, my seventh grade homeroom won a pizza party because we read the most books in the school (at our grade level) that year. That might be the only time I think that I had any kind of social status in middle school, ever. I was the girl that read like, forty books, and got us in the top three in the school for books read in the county-wide competition.

The year I went into eighth grade was the year that The Hunger Games trilogy was topping the YA charts, and I think that the first movie came out the spring of that year, too. I was the first person in my English/Language Arts class that year to read the whole series, and it was before the series jumped on a waiting list that was 10 miles long. I loved the series, and ended up rereading it my Junior year of high school just because. Thank you Suzanne Collins, for feeding my warped love of dystopian novels early on.

With middle school also came newly published Beverly Lewis books, random books with titles I cannot remember checked out from the library every three-or-four days, and the best class I ever had in middle school (that everyone else and their brother will disagree with me about)- literacy block.

It was an hour or so of reading- every. single. morning. 

We took an aptitude test to find our reading levels, and I got placed in a classroom with a bunch of kids who were probably too intelligent for their own good at that age. We read books about science, we read this book called "The Red Badge of Courage," we read some of the Canterbury Tales, we read Beowulf, and so many other books. At first, we read aloud, or we read to a certain point and then stopped to let the class catch up.

Not me. 

I almost got myself into trouble, because I read the books so quickly. However, the teacher in charge of us has a sense of humor, and she eventually realized that there wasn't a plausible way to keep me from reading ahead. A couple of other students were doing it, too, but not on the scale I was.

She eventually handed me a book, which I'm not going to lie, I didn't intend on reading to completion. I was just going to read it in class every day to have something to do. Well, I ended up taking the book with me: home, to church, and to every class.

It was called, "The Unexpected Dragon." It is by Mary Brown, and is the most awesome science fiction trilogy that I have read in my entire life. It almost 900 pages long, and if you're looking for a new something to read to make you think- read this. Just do it. It'll change your life.

It took me two weeks to read, despite using every ounce of free time that I had to read it, and it left me dumbfounded at the end. I just hadn't really been challenged to read something so... Crazy?? The good kind of crazy. Again, I completely recommend this book.

After that, I finished out middle school reading whatever particularly drew me in. Nothing too memorable, unfortunately, but that was that.

High School:

When I began high school, I lived in North Carolina, had a lot of friends, and had a boyfriend. These things didn't exactly spell out bookworm, but oh my goodness, was I ever.

Within the first month of high school, I'd read at least ten books written by Nicholas Sparks. I was in love with this wonderful concept of cheesy romance novels, and I read about a dozen more books that were equally as cheesy, but not by Mr. Sparks. His books are amazing, take place in some of the most beautiful places, and tell stories that some other people wouldn't dare to tell. My two favorite books are definitely Save Haven, and the Notebook.

I spent a lot of my lunchtime, sitting on my rear-end in front of a bookshelf, looking for another book to lose myself in. The librarian was incredibly kind to me, and offered recommendations every time she saw me. When I got the news that I was moving, I actually even told this librarian. Turns out, she was from West Virginia, and was even born at the same hospital that I was. That brought me wonderful relief and peace, and suddenly I didn't feel as hopeless as I thought that I would. 

So, after I moved, I didn't read as much as I could have. I spent a lot of time journaling, and even more time listening to music. When I did read, it was class-mandated, and I despised being told what to read at that point. What even is the point of reading a good book, if it's going to be ruined with guided questions? Teachers also felt the need to say that books had one set meaning, and for us to think differently was wrong. The school library was much smaller at my new school, and I just didn't find the same joy in it that I had at the previous school.

However, I did go through this period of time when I discovered John Green, where I read every book that he had out at the time, and threw myself into "The Fault in Our Stars." I swore up and down that I would get his autograph, because I love his writing so much, and late last year, I bought a signed copy of "Turtles All the Way Down."

The following year wasn't much better- as my school had a proclivity for banning books.

{I found the word "proclivity" in an online thesaurus- I was originally going to use the term 'fetish,' but didn't want to make some of my more sensitive readers pass out on the ground, so I changed it. This is ironic because of what I'm about to tell you. Stay with me, here.}

We read several dystopian novels in my 10th grade Honors English class, and let me tell you, that's when I read 1984 for the first time. I don't have words to describe that one. It was a full mind, body, and spirit experience for me. George Orwell knew a thing or two about a thing or two. We also read Anthem, which I read very quickly and was underwhelmed. The reasoning behind this was because we read Orwell first. It was definitely a difficult act to follow.

Anyways, we read those two books, and I think that's all. We weren't allowed to read other books that might encourage things like free-thinking or prompt an emotional response out of us. That was forbidden and discouraged. Unfortunately, I quit paying attention in my English classes a lot after that. They were spoon feeding us literature, when at that point I was already eating up books and stories with a fork and knife, and washing down words of wisdom with a straw.

My 11th grade year was the absolute worst when it came to what we were reading in class.
We read Huck Finn, a harshly written, historically infamous piece of work, by the remarkable man that is Mark Twain. I read Tom Sawyer in elementary school, so I was already quite familiar with the character, and with the language used in the book. I was ashamed when, in a school at the time that was 98% Caucasian, our teachers chose to make us read the censored version of the book. It was offensive, to my white teachers, to hear racial slurs.

So, instead of making a lesson out of it, and explaining why the words were used and why they shouldn't be used now, they took a giant broom, swept everything under the rug, and had us read a watered-down version of the original.

This might aggravate some of you, who like to ignore history and create your own ideas of things and why/when they happen, but that's okay. I'm just a person that believes that if we censor literature, it can quickly amount to doing the same damage as burning books, and that it shouldn't be done. It also means that if we keep forgetting and ignoring things that have been said and done throughout history, that they will be doomed to repeat themselves.

Moving along, after that year, I transferred schools. (If you know me personally, or have been following me for a couple of years, you'll know all of the ins-and-outs of it all.)

I found myself in an AP English class my senior year that made me despise books, poetry, and the paper that it was written on. We read wonderful works of literature that year, my personal favorite of the year was Macbeth, by the one and only William Shakespeare. I recommend that book, and of course Romeo & Juliet, to anyone who can read at about a sixth grade level. Read them. Make jokes about them. Bite your thumb at some people, and all that.

(Fun Fact! I was in a group chat my senior year that we named, "Die Thou Egg." It was a joke, taken from Macbeth. We were a bunch of nerds. I digress.)

Aside from that, I didn't read much at the end of high school. I started reading again that summer, random books, books that people got me for my birthday, and so on and so forth. 

And Now?

I am currently obsessed with dystopian novelist, Margaret Atwood, and her book "The Heart Goes Last." It's got some more mature content in there, so it's not for the faint at heart.

Other good books that I've found myself lost in this last year:
"The Program" series by Suzanne Young
"The Selection" series by Kiera Cass
Literally any book ever written by Jojo Moyes.
The Riverhaven Series (Amish!) by B.J. Hoff
Turtles All the Way Down by John Green
The Handmaid's Tale by Margaret Atwood
Son (and the rest of "the Giver" series) by Lois Lowry

I've really been trying to get into any books I can, and have also recently discovered the world of poetry books. I'll try to keep up with what I'm reading over on my Facebook page, in case anyone is really ever that curious about it. 

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This is the first of what I hope are many in this series about answering prompts and questions. If you have any for me, please message me on Facebook or email me at victoria.wickline@gmail.com!

Thank you guys, as always, for reading what I have to say. So far, I'm really enjoying what 2018 has to offer, and I cannot wait to see where it takes me.

&Even more than that, I can't wait to share it with all of you.

Monday, January 15, 2018

The Gift of Writing

"Stay faithful to the stories in your head."
-Paula Hawkins

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When I was little, probably about seven or eight, I was in this class for "gifted" kids. We were the smart, quirky, and sarcastic kids that had been tested rigorously to get into this program, and it basically meant that on a weekly basis, we met with a special teacher. It was a type of special education for the above-average.

I was in this class from the time I was seven years old, up until I was about twelve. I had three different teachers, all of which had their different styles. My nana was also one of my teachers, and as much as I enjoyed the Diet Coke she provided me with for lunch everyday, I think I would've been better with an alternative instructor.

On one occasion in this class, my grandmother was absent to go off to some training course, and we had a substitute. Our assignment for the day was to write a short story of some sort, and work on it for the entire class period. To put this into perspective, I was a second grader. The writing I did consisted of spelling tests and the secret journal with boys names scribbled into it under my bed. Writing was almost foreign to me, and that day was the turning point.

Now, when I pen a story, I do just that- pen a story. Without room for pencils and erasing. I'd rather scribble something out, move on, and rewrite or type it later. Erasing takes too much time, and means that you can pretend that your mistakes didn't happen, rather than just learning from them.

That story that I wrote was quickly written, on wide-ruled notebook paper, and amassed to about eleven pages by the time I decided to quit writing it. I took it home with me, and would sit at my desk in my bedroom adding to it, imagining the possibilities. In school, I was the bookish one. I won awards for how much I read, and I aggravated some teachers with my habit of reading ahead when the class was struggling through a novel aloud. For the first time, I realized that I could control the fiction and make my own world from words and paper.

At around that age I mentioned earlier, in the second grade, I was blessed with a fantastic teacher who believed in teaching her students to write. Bless her, because she is one of the heaviest influences of my passion of writing to this day. Although it was well over ten years ago, I remember going into her class, sitting down at my little grey desk with the tacky, public school blue chair, and opening my journal. It was pink, not hot pink, but what I'll refer to as elementary school pink. It was also covered in Care Bears.

This teacher had us journal. Every single day. Some kids hated it, but it was my favorite part of second grade. In fact, I still have the journal. I read back over my childlike perspectives on things, and realize that even though I've become more graceful with words and terminology, I honestly haven't changed all that much.

Now, I've said all of this to actually make my point:

I really miss testing my mind and its limits. I miss the joy of being told what to write about, or how to write it. So over the last week, I've been gathering writing prompts from my friends, family, and the Internet. Some involve writing elaborate fictional tales, and some require a small bit of research. I got so stuck on the idea of becoming a journalist, that I forgot what it was like to just lose myself in writing.

Thank you to the people who have grown and nurtured this passion within me. You guys are the ones to whom I {might} owe my success to someday, if I ever become successful.

I hope that you guys enjoy what's to come, and if you have any ideas on things for me to write about, feel free to reach me at victoria.wickline@gmail.com.

This is a year that I'm looking forward to for dozens of reasons, and I hope that you guys enjoy being along for the ride.

Thursday, January 11, 2018

A Retrospective Perspective on 2017

  It's been quite a while since I last sat down in front of a computer to write. It's almost a foreign feeling to me.

  Hello everyone! Happy 2018! I hope that the last few months of 2017 treated all of you well, or at least decently.

  I apologize to those of you who closely followed me; I kind of fell off of the face of the planet for a few months. Life picked up, and I became incredibly overwhelmed with trying to keep up a blog, and so I shoved it onto the back burner for a long time to focus on other things. With what's going on in my life right now, I think that blogging again will be wonderful.

  Like all narrators, and especially those of memoirs, let me go ahead and fill you in on the personal things that I haven't had the opportunity to do yet. I'm going to do them chronologically, I think. If I get sidetracked, just bear with me; I promise that I'll make it through this post as eloquently as possible.

  When we last met, it was May and I was talking about friendship. I was discussing the ins-and-outs of forgiving people who might not deserve it, explaining that I'd reached a mature peak in my life where I could discern between the kinds of people I wanted in my life, and those I did not. Man, was I wrong. It was an extremely maturing process of thought, yes... but I don't think that at eighteen people can immediately decide to be friends with a certain type of person. Especially not if you're me, because I like being friends with everyone that I can be.

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  So, the month of April came and went. I don't know if I ever said anything about it, but I went to a fantastic concert... Panic! At The Disco in North Carolina with a bunch of people. That was another turning point for me, because up until that time, I'd never been to a concert in a stadium that wasn't Christian. The type of concerts with questionable offerings that may or may not have been going where they were designated to go.

  {There might be some gaps in my storytelling- I'm sitting at an iMac going through pictures on my phone. They're all marked by date and location, so I can piece together the missing pieces of the last eight months and make some type of sense.}

  The month of April also brought my first convention (the kind where a bunch of eclectic people gather in a convention center and walk around in costumes.. which is affectionately called "cosplay"), and I went with my friend from Geology. She was Dark Link, and I was Light [Death Note.] I spent way too much money, but enjoyed some of the coolest things ever. I met Chad Lindberg [also known as 'Doctor Badass' in Supernatural], who is one of the coolest guys ever. It's called "Causeacon," and aside from being run by some awesome people, it benefits victims of domestic violence in our area. A portion of all proceeds of that event and others benefit some awesome organizations, and if you're in the area this spring, you need to come to at least one day of it.

  I started reading books again. The kind that take a whole day to read, where you can't be bothered to do anything else because they consume you so much. That was a good thing. That's another reason I think I stopped writing so much; I wanted something to write about. I craved feelings and the emotional connection between reader and writer that I feel like I might have been missing for a little while. Now, I remember fully why I'm so passionate about writing.

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   April ended, and the month of May brought new adventures of its own.

  My brother (who I cannot refer to as 'little' anymore, because he towers over me), turned sixteen in May. Part of me wants to be in denial, because it feels like I was sixteen only days ago... and because sixteen was a strange age for me. I lost several loved ones, experienced the best year of high school ever, and had a lot of things to worry about that Nicholaus doesn't. He's a different sort of person. Over the last few months, I attended football games, fundraisers, and a banquet. I watched as he played several different positions on both sides of the ball, became statistically important on a state level in football, and he placed first in his division in a history fair.

  I spent a lot of time with Hayley and Wes, and an equal amount of time with Bethany and Jon when they were in from college. There were trips to Little Beaver, discovering what places near me actual deliver food for a considerable price, and at one point over the summer, Hayley, Bethany, Wesley, and I went out on the town.

  Surprising my mom with a birthday cake and a bunch of cards was a lot of fun. She wasn't expecting anything, but when she got home from work we had stuff waiting on her. Instead of birthday candles, my brother and I had scavenged and found candles from all around the house and lit them around the cake. In my honest opinion, I think that she enjoyed that more.

  My dad got himself (well, we all kind of pitched in, but I digress) a red riding lawn mower. That was one of the most joyful days of all 2017. The Aaron's guys who delivered it were even smiling because of everyone's excitement. Dad mowed grass every chance he got over the summer, and our yard was always beautiful to look at.

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  Summertime crept up on us out of nowhere, and many weekends were spent at the city pool laying in the sun or going down the only water slide for miles. My brother and I went, and his girlfriend would go too, and my dad came with us. I think he was making up for not being able to go swimming during the summer of 2016 because of his surgery. Either way, those weekends were a lot of fun.

  By now, you've probably noticed that I'm not talking about how much I worked over the summer. I did. Mom and I both did, actually. Although, some people made mistakes and my hours were drastically reduced, we both continued employment until September. Then we both left the company; honestly, you can tell when you don't belong somewhere anymore, and that was that. So you guys can feel free to assume that between all of these lovely summer misadventures, were incredibly long days taking service phone calls.

  My dad turned thirty-nine for the twentieth time on June 19th. We got him a Mountaineer colored cake, and had a good day.

  Then I went on a trip! That was the first trip of the year to North Carolina to exclusively visit my friends. I stayed with my friend Katy, her family, and her two dogs. (One of her pups has since crossed the rainbow bridge; rest in peace Ella.) That week was spent almost throwing up both of my lungs at a trampoline park, going to threeeee(??) different movies at a discount movie theater, spending forever in a Wave Pool at a water park, and helping Patrick establish his first type of independent residency. It was an altogether good week.

  July brought a thrilling kind of commotion all its own. Wesley Dylan celebrated his first birthday, with a Mickey Mouse party! (Hayley, Megan, and I sat up the night before making decorations late into the night- thank the Lord for Pinterest!) The same week, I went to Grandview with Bethany and Jon. We took a lot of trips to Grandview over the summer, and one trip to Sandstone Falls. Talk about some interesting hikes.

  Trip #2 to visit my friends came at the end of July. Patrick took me on a date to ride a carousel and a small train, we drove to some beautiful places just because, we watched Katy sneak McDonald's into "It" at a movie theater (I've taken Taco Bell into the movies before... What else am I supposed to eat? Movie theater food is expensive now!), and I ended up stranded in the Carolinas for a bit longer than I anticipated due to a payroll malfunction. Oh well. It ended up being so worth it!

  {Y'all are still with me, right? I know I'm cramming a lot into this! I'm getting all of the personal stuff outta the way so I can talk about what I want my blog to be in 2018! If you aren't interested in this aspect of my blog, I won't be offended at all if you want to go read a different post. Skip to the end to read my plans for 2018!}

  August was (of course!) my favorite month out of 2017. I turned 19, and took a carload of people to Fairlea, WV. We pitched two tents, made sandwiches, and camped out at the WV State Fair in the pouring rain at first! Bethany, Katy, Hayley, Jon, Patrick, and I had a blast. My tent spent the majority of the night playing cards and worrying about bugs, after watching some pretty phenomenal fireworks. The next day brought motion sickness, fried food, the most blatantly terrifying swing ride ever created in the entire world, and some pretty awesome memories. I made my friends ride the vomit-inducing rides with me more than they needed too, but they still loved me afterwards. Thankfully.

  My mom got me a swing for my birthday, and I cried.
  Patrick bought me a dozen red roses, and I cried.
  I had my first big birthday party since I was probably five years old.
  The day was topped off with a Spongebob birthday cake.

  The end of the summer was filled with a bunch of bonfires, and the beginning of football season. I spent as much time as possible with Hayley and Bethany, between working, and between Bethany being in town, and took some more trips to Grandview. All in all, it was a beautiful summer.

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  We've made it to September! Wow!

  The very first thing I did in September was get a new tattoo! Bethany and Hayley got tattoos with me! Hayley got a tattoo of the sun, Bethany got a tattoo of the moon, and I got a tattoo of a shooting star. They've always considered me a sister, and it was kind of a spur of the moment thing. Wes was with us in the tattoo shop, but he behaved very well, and absolutely loved watching everyone getting tattooed. We've all since joked about what tattoo he'll get to match ours/Hayley's when he's old enough. I guess it would be interesting for our children to follow in our footsteps and be best friends someday.

  Outside of the tattoo and football games on Friday nights, the middle part of September was uneventful. Oh, and I quit my job at some point. It just kind of naturally happened because I was planning on moving, but we'll get to that further down the page.

  HOWEVER: The end of September was phenomenal!!!

  We had a huge family reunion between Little Beaver and our house. Family came in from out of state, the friends that we consider family attended, and it was a blast! We had fancy gatherings, casual little sit downs, and my favorite part of the weekend had to be all of the bonfires. We sat around telling stories and jokes late into the night. The best jokes came from my parents, and from my Uncle Denny and Uncle Bill. They know how to make people laugh.

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  October was a doozy.

  Anyone who knows me knows that all I have talked about for years is moving to North Carolina to be closer to the people I love. It annoyed my friends in high school, it annoyed everyone to be honest, but I was dead set on moving. Well, earlier in 2017, I had all of my planning focused on October. I was going to move at the end of October, and planned a lot of my life around that. My family did, too.

  Well. I took Trip #3 in October. I packed enough clothes to stay in North Carolina indefinitely, and spent a lot of time by myself at Patrick's apartment because he had to work.

  During that stay, my dear friend Brianna (whom I hadn't seen since my freshman year of high school), dyed my hair for me and fixed that situation. Patrick spent some time with her fiancé at an arcade, and Brianna and I caught up on life while she and a few other girls dyed and color-corrected my hair.

  Patrick and I also went to a haunted attraction called the "Woods of Terror," that I would GREATLY recommend to anyone in the Piedmont-Triad area of North Carolina. It rocked.

  Despite having a pretty good trip, at a few points during that stay, I felt that my mental and physical well-being were being jeopardized, and called my parents to come get me...and to get Patrick.

  Due to unforeseen circumstances, Patrick ended up returning with my uncle, my dad, and I- and he moved to West Virginia.

  Just like that, everything I'd spent years planning for, changed. It's like someone (*cough* God *cough*) snapped their fingers and decided that I belonged somewhere else. He also knew that I needed Patrick as a constant and unwavering presence in my life, and let me tell you, that alone has improved me as a person over the last few months.

  {For those of you looking down your glasses at the screen at the fact that Patrick moved in, my parents were the ones who pushed for it, because of the bold, extremely overpowering text above. Pat is family, and we've viewed him like that for years.}

  The end of October was spent looking for more haunted attractions to go to, including Fright Nights at Glade Springs Resort. It was really good, too. So was the chili that they sold. If you aren't into creepy things, go and buy some of the chili that they sell... That alone is worth it.

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  In November, we celebrated Thanksgiving with a lot of food. We had a lot to be thankful for, but it was also our first Thanksgiving in this new house, which has turned out to be one of the biggest blessings to happen in the history of this section of the Wickline family.

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  In December, Patrick and I ended up on an impromptu trip to Tennessee that was a whirlwind of emotion. We did get to enjoy the Ripley Aquarium, Ripley's Believe it or Not Museum, and the 5D Movie Theater.

  I also purchased tickets to go see Taylor Swift in concert this July, something that I'm really looking forward to because I didn't get to go to her Fearless Tour when I was younger. The other tours haven't really piqued my interest, but the Reputation era Taylor is pretty cool. I'm really looking forward to it.

  Christmas was the best day of the year. Well, allow me to rephrase, the weekend of Christmas Eve was the best weekend of the year. My family trekked to Indiana to spend Christmas with my Uncle Denny and Uncle Bill. We watched movies, ate some good food, spent a lot of time talking, playing cards, and we decorated a Christmas tree to the tune of Mannheim Steamroller Christmas music. My uncles are some of the coolest guys you'll ever meet, and I can't wait to see them again.

  The end of December was spent ringing in the New Year with some good friends and my family. We spent New Year's Eve playing card games, Headbandz, Mario Kart, and Just Dance. It was a ton of fun. We toasted the New Year, the couples kissed, and everyone sat around watching TV or waiting until they passed out.

  Then, sometime earlier this month, I got to spend some time catching up with one of my closest friends from high school, Emily. She came over, brought her little boy Asher, and while he tried to create small bouts of chaos, she and I caught up on a couple of years worth of missing space. I'm thankful that 2018 has started off with her back in my life as a close friend; she's one of those people that you keep around forever.

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  2017 was a really fulfilling year for me, and maybe that's one of the reasons that I didn't have the change to write as much as I would've liked to. I spent a lot of time actually going places, doing things, spending time with people, and working.

  This year, I don't have a New Year's Resolution. I just know that I want to write, I want to work this new job I got with the best attitude I've ever had towards a job, I want to go on dates with Patrick at random times and relish in the feeling of not being in a hurry anymore, I want to go to concerts and festivals, and I want to give back to people who made last year so good for me.

This is the part where I throw in the congratulations of important things that happened in 2017 that I failed to mention throughout the year: 

-Bethany & Jon (engagement)
-Emily (engagement and the birth of her little boy earlier in 2017)
-Brianna & Chad (engagement)
-Erica (birth of her daughter)

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Thank you guys for bearing with me throughout this post, this next year is going to be a world of difference on my blog. I want to let other people write and share their thoughts, I want to share some more of my poetry, I want to share some fictional works, and I just want to be more real with everyone who reads this.

Happy 2018!

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